I read this quote somewhere the other day that goes something like "Nobody can make you feel angry or sad or any other emotion. People create the situation and its up to you to decide how you want to react."
Sometimes its just really hard to not feel one way when the people seem to make it so, especially when you get unfavourable comments about your work or when accusations are thrown at you. I kept reminding myself of the above quote. I read it over and over again in my mind. And you know what, it did help! People create these situations in life...but its up to you to choose how you want to react. If someone insults you, do you get angry and strike back? Or do you take it in good stride and brush it off your shoulder like the dirt that it is?
Its never easy to control how we feel sometimes...we are human afterall...but its not impossible. Will power is all it takes. Hell, you'll still feel a slight sting when you think about it but it will always be "Mind Over Matter" and virtually anything is achievable!
You get all sorts of people in this world. In every community, in every group, there will always be good and bad. Its what you make of it that makes all the difference in the world.
Well, Valentines Day is over...but that doesn't mean couples won't be going on dates and guys giving their girls flowers and chocolates. I think Valentines Day is everyday really. If you want it to be Valentines Day, and you make the effort to make it happen, then it is! Who knows, maybe after I get out of the army and get my life back on the road of progress, I'll meet someone nice and be able to celebrate my first ever Valentines Day LoL :) That'll be something REALLY special. You know, I see all these guys at the MRT station standing in a row as if they know each other, with bouquets of red roses in their hands and lit candles on the parapet just behind them. That is just SO overrated these days man. If I had a valentine, I'd spend time preparing something unique...different and extremely special. I suppose there would be red roses and chocolates. The approach would, of course, be different! I am SO not going to stand with a bunch of guys, holding a bouquet of red roses with lit candles at my behind. I don't exactly know what I'd do but I'll be writing it here when it happens you can be assured of that!
As today is Friday, its 3 days till I have to go back to CMPB for that medical test thing. I still do wonder what test they want to do on me and I am pretty certain its a blood test *shudders* Oh well, just gotta get it over and done with. Gotta give JiaRong a call to see if he still wants to head down. We agreed that he'd accompany me on Monday and I accompany him on Tuesday. Lmao He has to go for another test too xD I have this feeling his is going to take forever just like before...Well, hopefully we get PES C's xD